I thought I would share with the world how Spencer came to have what is called Erb Palsy. For those of you who do not know what Erb Palsy is, it is a nerve injury. Some, if not most, cases are a result of an injury during the birthing process. Some cases are a result of some trauma to the body. Either way it results in damage to the Brachial Plexus Nerve Network-the system that controls movement and feelings in the arms and fingers. I am only becoming aware of what Erb Palsy is and how it will affect our son. We are an expat couple living in Shanghai; therefore our information and resources are limited here. We rely a lot on what we can find on the internet, from our good friends back home who ask questions on our behalf (and a good friend who is a pediatrician) and by asking questions of our pediatrician here (he’s Hong Kong born, Aussie trained doctor).
Spencer was born September 2011. Unlike back home in Canada, every time I went for a prenatal check up I would get an ultrasound. At first everything seemed normal and on schedule. It wasn’t until about the seventh month that my Doctor started making comments about how big my son was. Everything was normal-even the testing for Downs and Spina bifida and all his organs were in check. He had 10 fingers, 10 toes, a strong heart and strong organs. At first we often joked about how big he was growing. People often commented on me always looking ready to pop. My plan was to deliver naturally. I had delivered my daughter-14 years ago-vaginally so I knew I had it in me to do it. As the due date drew closer and I started to move into a bi-weekly visits and ultra sound images more comments were made about how big my son was getting. It was always done in a joking way and never a serious moment from my doctor. It wasn’t until about the 35th week that I began to become worried about how big my son was measuring-he was measuring for a 38 week term baby.
I was freaking out on the inside because, let’s face it, who really wants to deliver a large baby vaginally? However, on the outside, like my doctor, I was laughing and joking about the whole thing. The whole time all I kept thinking about was my poor vagina. Is it going to be able to unload this big baby naturally or am I going to have to do the dreaded c-section? It was even more frustrating as trying to communicate my birth plan with my OBGYN was very must a battle of school of thoughts. I had a birth plan in mind and had I had my choice I would have done a relaxing home birth but home birthing is not an option when living in China. My next best option was a clinic that specialized in women’s reproductive health. I settled on the American Sino OB/GYN Clinic that has an in-patient VIP floor at a local hospital down the street from it’s out-patient clinic. As my delivery date drew closer I started to notice that some of my birth plan options were not going to be honoured. One of the options was a quasi lotus birth where I wanted to deliver my placenta naturally and allow for my son’s lungs and heart to naturally function without the forced entry into the world. This was not to happen as my doctor thought it wasn’t healthy. I knew there had to be some compromising around Spencer’s delivery. However, I was adamant that under no circumstances was I to be cut open unless there was complications to my son. In hindsight I wonder if a c-section would have stopped my son from getting the shoulder dystocia and Erb palsy? I will never know but I can’t dwell on this minor fact.
So birth day arrived. My contractions started out pretty normal, pretty much how I remembered them with my first child, painful menstral cramping sensations. I had been experiencing strong braxton hicks for quite some time but when I saw the bloody show and an increase in pain I knew I was in the beginning stages of labour. It was pretty much normal in that I had strong contractions every 30 mins but short, weaker contractions between the 30 mins. After a few hours of this type of labour we decided to call my OBGYN. He asked us to check into the in-patient clinic. I was feeling perfectly fine, no light headness nor shortness of breath. I wasn’t in too much pain either, considering I was in labour. Once I was admitted they checked my blood pressure and did a urine protein reading. According to the blood pressure and urine reading I was showing signs of severe pre-clampsia. Again, there was no concern about this during my pre-natal care check up. Another one of my birth plan requests was not to use drugs as I had planned to do the breast crawl upon delivery. In order for this to be successful the baby must be drug free. However, because of my pre-clampsia, they induced me using Pitocin. When they gave me the injection they informed me that they were using a drug to ‘reduce my blood pressure and open up my cervix’ and it wasn’t until well after I left the hospital that I discovered they used Pitocin on me. It is actually quite a painful drug to take and my arm felt pain for a few days after the delivery. Needless to say once the Pitocin was in me the real labour began.
Waves of pain overcame me and the contractions took on a whole new meaning. I had not had any pain relief medication and I had opted out of a epidural (I had one with my first child and didn’t feel the birth and I wanted to feel this one). About 2.5 hours later Spencer was on the cusp of being delivered but it appeared something was wrong. He got stuck and wasn’t coming out. I could feel the doctor just rotating him around trying to pull him out. The nurses were pushing on my stomach and finally he came out. I knew something was wrong because they didn’t bring him over to me as I had requested. I wasn’t in pain anymore and all I wanted to do was hold my new baby. The doctor began repairing me while the nurse and pediatrician looked over my son. My husband stayed with Spencer while I remained in the room. I was suffering a 4th degree perineal tear. My husband noticed right away that there was something wrong with Spencer’s arm. It wasn’t moving around like his other arm. They wheeled him out of my birth in room to the nursery. He was placed in an incubator and I was told that he wasn’t breathing well enough on his own.
Once the doctor had finished fixing me up and was able to check in on Spencer he returned to tell us the news. These are his exact words-we will never forget what he said to us-“This is a doctor’s worst nightmare, it looks like Spencer’s right arm has been injured, probably shoulder dystocia” We were devastated. Who wants to hear those words come out of the mouth of your attending physician. Thank goodness we had been in China for 4 years and understood the dramatics that come from such occasions. However, my battle with Chinese doctors had only begun.
First, there was my desire to breast feed from the onset. When we did the tour of the hospital floor one odd thing stuck out, and that was that they were proud to offer us imported infant formula. Due to recent scandals about Chinese infant formula a lot of new parents were keen to buy imported formulas. I had no desire to ever give Spencer formula. I had actually planned the breast crawl but because of the injury he couldn’t do the breast crawl. I was desperate to start the bonding process with Spencer and start breastfeeding. The doctor’s said Spencer’s glucose levels were so high and his breathing was so low that they had to give him sugar water (again against my birth plan wishes) and formula (very much against my birth plan wishes). My husband fought them up and down about formula and informed them that I was to start breastfeeding Spencer. The doctors then became very worried about his breathing therefore I was not allowed to breastfeed Spencer (they gave him formula against my wishes). The hospital did not even offer a pump nor did they tell me how to store the colstrum (I found this out online after the fact). They wanted him to be seen by doctors at Fudan Children’s Hospital. So after many consultations, Spencer was sent over to Fudan’s Neo-natal Intensive Care Unit.
He spent 9 days in the NICU and of those 9 days we could only seem him for 5 days. Again, unlike in other countries, parents are not encouraged to bond with their child while in the NICU. No I shouldn’t say that, if you can afford to pay the VIP prices, then you can bond with your child in the NICU, but if like many Chinese you can’t afford to pay the VIP prices then you don’t get the opportunity to bond with your child in the NICU. Due to my observations of China I understand why this doesn’t happen however it still disheartening to hear and see all those parents waiting behind glass windows hoping to hear good news about their child. After many pediatricians and specialists Spencer’s injury was finally diagnosed as Erb Palsy and the prognosis looked good.
Once we got Spencer home the real healing began. From this moment on I will break his healing journey down and hopefully give parents information about what they can do if they ever find themselves in this situation.